FEELING EMOTIONAL? IT MAY BE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM

Learn how the nervous system affects your emotions, and get practical tips to keep your emotions balanced.

Loren Hogue
Co-CEO, NEUROFIT
5 MINUTE READ
JAN 11, 2025

Have you ever found yourself wondering, "Why am I so emotional?" You're not alone. Many people experience heightened emotions that seem to come out of nowhere. Understanding the nervous-system-related reasons behind these emotional swings can help you manage your feelings better and improve your well-being.

Understanding Emotional Triggers

Emotions are a natural part of the human experience, but sometimes they can feel overwhelming. There are several factors that can contribute to why you might be feeling more emotional than usual.

Causes of Heightened Emotions

1. Hormonal Changes

Hormones play a significant role in regulating emotions. Changes in hormone levels, such as those that occur during menstruation, pregnancy, or menopause, can lead to increased emotional sensitivity. Hormonal fluctuations can significantly affect mood and emotional stability.

2. Chronic Stress

Chronic stress is a major contributor to emotional instability. When stress accumulates over time, it can dysregulate the nervous system, making you more prone to emotional outbursts. Chronic stress builds up in the body over time, affecting our physiology.

Chronic stress builds up in the nervous system, leading to mental and physical health challenges.

3. Lack of Sleep

Sleep is essential for emotional regulation. Poor sleep quality or insufficient sleep can impair your ability to manage emotions effectively. Sleep issues can exacerbate emotional dysregulation.

4. Nutritional Deficiencies

Your diet can also impact your emotional health. Deficiencies in essential nutrients like B vitamins, magnesium, and omega-3 fatty acids can affect emotional stability.

5. Unresolved Trauma

Past traumas, if not addressed, can linger in your nervous system and resurface as emotional triggers, leading to heightened emotional responses. Nervous system dysregulation often arises from unresolved trauma.

6. Mental Health Conditions

Conditions such as anxiety and depression can amplify emotional reactions. If you suspect a mental health issue, it's important to seek professional help.

Signs of Emotional Dysregulation

Emotional dysregulation can manifest in various ways. Here are some signs to look out for:

Frequent mood swings

Overreacting to minor issues

Difficulty calming down after being upset

Feeling overwhelmed by emotions

Trouble maintaining relationships due to emotional outbursts

The Role of the Nervous System

Your nervous system plays a crucial role in how you experience and manage emotions. When your nervous system is balanced, you can handle stress and emotional challenges more effectively. However, a dysregulated nervous system can make you more susceptible to emotional instability.

The Window of Tolerance

The window of tolerance describes the range of emotional intensity and nervous system activation you can handle without becoming overwhelmed. Built up chronic stress and unresolved trauma narrow this window, making it harder to stay within a regulated emotional state.

A balanced nervous system is better prepared to handle stress and challenges.

Nervous System States

Understanding the different states of your nervous system can help you identify why you might be feeling more emotional.

Ventral Vagal State: Associated with feelings of safety and social engagement.

Sympathetic State: Linked to fight-or-flight responses, causing anxiety and irritability.

Dorsal Vagal State: Related to shutdown or freeze responses, leading to feelings of numbness or hopelessness.

When your emotions are out of balance due to nervous system imbalance, they'll often show up in one of the three bottom dysregulated states in the NEUROFIT Ring:

The NEUROFIT Ring shows the six possible nervous system states, and the transitions between them.

Practical Ways to Manage Emotions

Balancing your nervous system is key to managing your emotions effectively. Here are some practical steps you can take:

Daily Habits for Emotional Balance

1. Exercise Regularly

Physical activity releases endorphins and helps regulate your nervous system. Aim for at least 10 minutes of regular exercise daily.

2. Practice Stillness

Incorporate stillness practices like meditation or deep breathing exercises to calm your nervous system. Stillness practices can significantly help in emotional regulation.

3. Engage in Social Play

Social interactions and playful activities can help balance your nervous system and improve emotional regulation. Social play is essential for emotional well-being.

4. Maintain a Consistent Sleep Routine

Prioritize sleep by establishing a regular bedtime routine and avoiding late-night eating or screen time. Maintaining a consistent sleep-wake cycle can improve your HRV and overall emotional balance.

4. Somatic Exercises When Stressed

Somatic exercises are an amazing way to re-balance and release stuck emotions within a few minutes. Try the Cannon exercise next time you're feeling tension, as it may allow for a much-needed release of trapped emotions:

Cannon - Powerful exhales and contractions to release excess energy.

Avoiding Negative Triggers

1. Limit Alcohol and Substance Use

Alcohol and drugs can disrupt your nervous system and exacerbate emotional instability. Avoiding alcohol and substances is crucial for maintaining emotional stability.

2. Reduce Online Stress

Be mindful of your online activity. Avoid consuming negative content that can trigger emotional responses. Online stress can significantly impact emotional health.

3. Avoid Social Fatigue

Balance your social interactions with alone time to recharge and prevent emotional burnout. Managing social fatigue can help you maintain emotional balance.

Nourishing Your Body

1. Eat a Balanced Diet

Ensure your diet includes essential nutrients that support emotional health, such as omega-3 fatty acids and B vitamins. A healthy diet is fundamental for emotional well-being.

2. Stay Hydrated

Proper hydration is crucial for maintaining nervous system balance. Water intake directly affects emotional and physiological health.

3. Prioritize Peace

Create a peaceful environment and engage in activities that promote relaxation and emotional well-being. Choosing peace is essential for emotional stability.

Using the NEUROFIT App for Emotional Regulation

The NEUROFIT App is designed to help you manage your emotions by balancing your nervous system. With daily check-ins, personalized insights, and somatic exercises, you can achieve better emotional regulation.

The NEUROFIT App's personalized coaching insights help you pinpoint what your nervous system needs most.

Personal Insights and Experiences

As someone who has personally experienced the challenges of emotional dysregulation, I understand how overwhelming it can be. After the sudden passing of my father, I struggled with acute anxiety, chronic grief, sleep disturbances, and other emotional issues. Through my journey, I discovered that balancing my nervous system was key to regaining emotional stability.

Andrew and I developed the NEUROFIT App to help others who are facing similar challenges. Our app provides a simple, effective way to balance your nervous system and improve your emotional health.

Why am I so emotional during my period?

Hormonal changes during menstruation can lead to increased emotional sensitivity. It's important to support your body with proper nutrition, hydration, and rest during this time.

How does chronic stress affect emotions?

Chronic stress dysregulates the nervous system, making you more prone to emotional outbursts and mood swings. Managing stress with somatic exercises and regular exercise, stillness practices, and social play can help.

Can diet impact emotional health?

Yes, nutritional deficiencies can affect your mood and emotional stability. Ensure your diet includes essential nutrients like B vitamins, magnesium, and omega-3 fatty acids.

How can the NEUROFIT App help with emotional regulation?

The NEUROFIT App offers personalized insights, daily check-ins, and somatic exercises to help you balance your nervous system and manage your emotions more effectively.

Balancing your emotions starts with understanding your nervous system. By taking proactive steps and using tools like the NEUROFIT App, you can achieve greater emotional stability and well-being.

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Loren Hogue
Co-CEO, NEUROFIT
Loren is a co-founder of NEUROFIT, and a Master Somatics + Business Coach with a decade of experience coaching thousands of clients worldwide.
After facing years of chronic stress, burnout, and nervous system dysregulation after a loss in her family, she launched NEUROFIT as a fast, effective and accessible solution to these challenges.
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